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Registered: 05-26-2004
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 5:07pm
ok say me and my fiance was to have sex with no condom/birth control and he just pulls out but wen he feels like hes gunna come he stops for a min than go..wuts the percentage of getting pregnant? cant the sperm come out wen he feels its gunna come or it juss goes down i dont know haha..let me know what u guys think thanx
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: roxybabuee
Mon, 09-27-2004 - 11:00pm
Hi roxybabuee, welcome back!

Withdrawal is not an effective method of contraception. It depends too much of the skill of your partner in being able to control himself at the peak of his drive to do what nature intended and release inside you. By the time he feels ready to ejaculate sperm from his pre-ejaculate are probably already inside you. Not many perhaps, but it only takes one of his swimmers to impregnate you. The key to the likelihood is if you are fertile when you guys are playing bedroom Russian roulette. If you have been charting your fertile signs, basal body temperature, cervical position and cervical mucus and you know when you are fertile and will ovulate so that you can abstain (or use a barrier) you may be ok. If you aren't charting, you won't know for sure and can get pg. There are far too many variables for anyone to say what the chances are but if you don't want to be pg then I wouldn't be doing that sort of thing. Just my $0.02...

Take care,

      Jill

    

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Registered: 09-28-2004
In reply to: roxybabuee
Tue, 09-28-2004 - 9:27pm
If you don't want to get pregnant, personally I would either use a condom or get on some form of birth control. My ex didn't believe in condoms, and I was "young and stupid", and got pregnant...

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Registered: 05-26-2004
In reply to: roxybabuee
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 6:26pm
yea i had a son young im only 18 and hes 2 but i dont reget a thing hes most important person in my life.. im tryin to get my life together and save money for an apartment but i cant rent is way to much and im a single mother.


i think im gettin my period. my stomach is like sore and my back is hurtin that might be from work but i dont know. we will see in a day or two.

im glad i joined this site i can kinda talk to people about my problem god knows i got soo many my whole life is fuked up :'( i cry alot and i get jaw tension haha

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Registered: 10-08-2004
In reply to: roxybabuee
Sat, 10-09-2004 - 12:02am
Withdrawl is a highly uneffective method of birth control. There are not any general statistics because it depends on the cooperation of both partners to know when to pull out, and even though sperm has already been deposited through pre-ejaculate.
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Registered: 12-08-2003
In reply to: roxybabuee
Sat, 10-09-2004 - 1:24pm
i'm almost in the same boat as the first post.

but i am on the pill, and i let the guy im seeing cum in me twice and the pill was the only form of birthcontrol. hopefully my pill is doing the trick! :)