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| Mon, 09-27-2004 - 5:07pm |
ok say me and my fiance was to have sex with no condom/birth control and he just pulls out but wen he feels like hes gunna come he stops for a min than go..wuts the percentage of getting pregnant? cant the sperm come out wen he feels its gunna come or it juss goes down i dont know haha..let me know what u guys think thanx

Withdrawal is not an effective method of contraception. It depends too much of the skill of your partner in being able to control himself at the peak of his drive to do what nature intended and release inside you. By the time he feels ready to ejaculate sperm from his pre-ejaculate are probably already inside you. Not many perhaps, but it only takes one of his swimmers to impregnate you. The key to the likelihood is if you are fertile when you guys are playing bedroom Russian roulette. If you have been charting your fertile signs, basal body temperature, cervical position and cervical mucus and you know when you are fertile and will ovulate so that you can abstain (or use a barrier) you may be ok. If you aren't charting, you won't know for sure and can get pg. There are far too many variables for anyone to say what the chances are but if you don't want to be pg then I wouldn't be doing that sort of thing. Just my $0.02...
Take care,
Jill
i think im gettin my period. my stomach is like sore and my back is hurtin that might be from work but i dont know. we will see in a day or two.
im glad i joined this site i can kinda talk to people about my problem god knows i got soo many my whole life is fuked up :'( i cry alot and i get jaw tension haha
but i am on the pill, and i let the guy im seeing cum in me twice and the pill was the only form of birthcontrol. hopefully my pill is doing the trick! :)