Shower With Boyfriend?! Help

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Registered: 11-16-2004
Shower With Boyfriend?! Help
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Tue, 11-16-2004 - 5:39pm

Ok on saturday night my boyfriend and I took a shower together. We have never had sex, and have no intention to until we are married. This is the first time we have ever done this. I was on like the 5th day of my period. In the shower he pre-ejaculated, and some of the fluid got on my stomach, a while after this he fingered me. Is there any way I could be pregnant? I have no suspicions at the moment, I am just nervous, because I have never done anything like this before. The fluid could have washed off because we were in the shower, meaning it could have gotten around my vagina?
Maybe I am just paranoid...but I am still on my period right now.

Please just give me an idea of wether or not I should be worried, or if I am just silly for being paranoid.

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Tue, 11-16-2004 - 6:13pm

Hi cuteness01, welcome!

It's never silly to have questions about sex. Hon, you may not have had intercourse (been penetrated), but you did have sex! If you were on your period there is usually very little likelihood that you are at risk. If you have very short or irregular cycles, then there is a chance that you could be fertile at the end of your period. If that is your situation you may have been at slight risk Otherwise I wouldn't worry. If you are going to continue playing with his fluids you really should begin using an effective form of contraception. Unless you are very careful one thing can lead to another and before you know what happened in the heat of the moment you will be at risk and unprotected. Let us know how you're doing, ok?

Good luck,

      Jill

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2004
Sun, 11-21-2004 - 5:24pm

JMHO, If you two are fooling around, his penis should have a condom on it.