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Virgins and Orgasms
| Tue, 11-30-2004 - 5:31pm |
I just recently lost my viginity. I was wondering how long it will take for me to orgasm. I know every women's body is different but I was thinking that there might be an average length. This is really confusing to me. One of my friends said it took her nine months to have one. I have done some research but have found nothing.

Hi kwan4life, welcome!
My experience was that I had to find out what turned me on by masturbating before I could tell my first partners what I liked. Unless you are with a very experienced partner it's going to take some experimenting. I think too that a woman's orgasm doesn't usually occur during penetration, it can certainly but not usually. We take a LOT more forplay to get us aroused than guys. So, you can work on perfecting your technique at home while you are alone. Think of it as homework for extra credit. Then when you know what lights your lamp, clue your guy in. Let us know how you're doing, ok?
Good luck,
Jill
Hi Kwan4life:
Some women do NOT orgasm by sexual intercourse; my wife orgasms by clitoris stimulation.