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| Sun, 01-09-2005 - 10:07am |
Hi I know that I posted a question a month or two ago about my concern that my labias are long and large.. It still has been bothering me GREATLY and i feel emberassed that my vagina looks so big! I masturbate and i don't know if that would cause my vagina to get bigger. i hate it and i heard of a surgery to make your labias smaller..
I was just wondering if there is anybody who feels the same way I do and if there is anything i can do. Also will guys think it is really weird that i have a large looking vagina.
PLEASE HELP!!
I was just wondering if there is anybody who feels the same way I do and if there is anything i can do. Also will guys think it is really weird that i have a large looking vagina.
PLEASE HELP!!

Hi tulips21, welcome back!
Hon, there is no truer saying than 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'! Some men may be fascinated by you just the way you are. What are you using for comparison? Do you really know that you are that much different from the average woman? I'm sure, if you talk to a plastic surgeon s/he can reduce the size of your labia if that's what you really want. Before you decide to have a reduction, be sure to ask a lot of questions. Your labia increase in size and produce lubricant when you are aroused. Will a reduction affect that mechanism or cause other side effects during arousal?
I don't think masturbation permanently increases the size of your labia. If you were very young when you began it might, perhaps, speed their development. When I'm highly aroused my labia engorge, spread, weep lube and turn a maroon-purplish color which is quite natural for an aroused woman. DF loves being able to have that effect on me! Let us know what you decide, ok?
Good luck,
Jill
I very much doubt that masturbation can make your labia bigger, unless you put weights on it or something like that. I was a heavy masturbator for about 6 years and I haven't noticed any difference.
As for what men like, I don't think the majority of them pay much attention. Most of my female friends say that they find their labias ugly (so you aren't alone!) yet it doesn't seem to bother any of their boyfriends. Plus, I think that men are so happy to be having sex in the first place that the look of your labia is just a detail to them.
Hi,
I agree with the other ladies, especially the part about one's DH/SO really appreciating their ability to see your arousal through the way your body responds.
I think the way you describe your labia sounds just like mine. When I first developed (and for years after I suppose) I felt the way I looked was not *normal* and I was concerned. I even imagined that my size "down there" might have been caused by falling on the bar of the boy's style bike I rode, lol! I came to understand that we are all different, and so I say just accept and enjoy! I am finding that as I enter menopause my labia are "shrinking" back more like pre-puberty. You can always just wait:)
Sandy