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sex.. hurts??
| Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:50am |
This has never happened to me before... A few days aso my DF and I had a quicky, I was dry, and should have gone for the lube, but didn't. Anyway now sex is SO painful, I can't let him even enter me, it just hurts WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY to bad for him to penetrate. I'm just wondering what's wrong and if anyone can help??

Hi one_lucky_cowgirl, welcome!
Quickies can be fun but not if your body isn’t ready. You’re right, a lube would have kept you from chafing. Sometimes it doesn’t take much to abrade or tear vaginal tissue and I’ll bet that’s what happened.
I have found pure Aloe Vera gel to be very soothing for chafed vaginal tissue but it can sometimes be hard to find unless there is a natural health products store nearby. Another choice would be Replens vaginal moisturizer in prefilled disposable applicators or multiple applications with a reusable applicator. Or, you can ask your pharmacist what s/he would recommend.
Get yourself a good vaginal moisturizer and use it for a few days. I’ll bet you will be feeling like your old self in no time at all. Come back and let us know what you used and how you’re doing, ok?
Good luck,
Jill