first time anal sex

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2005
first time anal sex
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Thu, 07-21-2005 - 4:26pm
My partner is experienced with anal sex and wants to do it with me. However, I suffer from ocassional hemorroids and am very scared to try anal sex because of this. Is there anything I should know or should I avoid it all together?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 07-22-2005 - 12:23am

Hi imcurious007, welcome!

Hon, don’t let him pressure you to try something you don’t want to do. You MUST start out very slowly. A very good article about anal is http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/anal.htm There was no mention of hemorrhoids in the article but I think they may be a problem. I would go very, very slowly so that if something is uncomfortable you can stop immediately. If you want to give it a try you could just see how it goes. There is no reason to rush and every reason not to. It could take weeks to build up your trust and relaxation level to where he inserts more than a finger, or maybe not. If you want to ask about others experiences you might want to post on the iVillage Lets Talk About Sex Board at: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/listsf.asp?webtag=iv-rlletstalkab&nav=start I hope you will come back and let us know how you’re doing ok?

Good luck,

      Jill