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anal Sex Dilema
| Tue, 03-14-2006 - 5:43pm |
Hi Everyone i'm new to this forum and hopefully some of you guys are able to help me out. After a lot of begging on my husbands parts for anal sex I fianlly gave in last night. Wow was i missing on something. The only problem and not that it's a problem, but he came in inside me anally. Should i be worried is that safe? Or is it safer to use a condom?
Thanks.

Hi bella-chiquita, welcome!
It would be a lot better for him (from a personal hygiene perspective) if he wore a condom. There should be no problem for you with your husband's semen in your colon, unless... Stay with me now on this, ok?
Are you on hormonal contraceptives or where you using a cervical barrier (a diaphragm or cervical cap) or a vaginal spermicide so you were protected against pregnancy during anal? The reason I ask is that if you were fertile at the time and fertile cervical mucus was on your labia and some of DH's semen drained out and got into that fertile mucus there is a possibility (though very small I think) that you could have an unintended pregnancy.
And of course you both should wash thoroughly before there is any further genital contact after anal sex. I think if you were using contraception, or his semen did not get to your FCM then you should be fine.
Thanks for posting. If you have more questions, please ask. Let us know how you're doing, ok?
Good luck,
Jill
Hi Bella,
Welcome.