anal Sex Dilema

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Registered: 03-14-2006
anal Sex Dilema
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Tue, 03-14-2006 - 5:43pm

Hi Everyone i'm new to this forum and hopefully some of you guys are able to help me out. After a lot of begging on my husbands parts for anal sex I fianlly gave in last night. Wow was i missing on something. The only problem and not that it's a problem, but he came in inside me anally. Should i be worried is that safe? Or is it safer to use a condom?

Thanks.

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 8:10pm

Hi bella-chiquita, welcome!

It would be a lot better for him (from a personal hygiene perspective) if he wore a condom. There should be no problem for you with your husband's semen in your colon, unless... Stay with me now on this, ok?

Are you on hormonal contraceptives or where you using a cervical barrier (a diaphragm or cervical cap) or a vaginal spermicide so you were protected against pregnancy during anal? The reason I ask is that if you were fertile at the time and fertile cervical mucus was on your labia and some of DH's semen drained out and got into that fertile mucus there is a possibility (though very small I think) that you could have an unintended pregnancy.

And of course you both should wash thoroughly before there is any further genital contact after anal sex. I think if you were using contraception, or his semen did not get to your FCM then you should be fine.

Thanks for posting. If you have more questions, please ask. Let us know how you're doing, ok?

Good luck,

      Jill

    

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 03-15-2006 - 2:02pm

Hi Bella,


Welcome.

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Registered: 03-16-2006
Thu, 03-16-2006 - 5:20pm
Bella you definately should use a condom everytime you have anal sex even if its with your long term partner, never have anal sex and then go to the vagina without changing condoms you are transmitting germs from your anus to your vagina and that is bound to cause some infection. also for his well being he should use a condom because he can also get an infection on his penis from any foeces that is left if any or any other bacteria. so yes use a condom all the time remember to lubricate alot and enjoy!! oh and i totally agree with you my partner begged me for years and i didnt want tot try it but when i did it felt like heaven maybe even better than normal sex at times. hope i helped.
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Registered: 05-19-2006
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 11:59am
I think that it is perfectly fine for him to ejaculate inside if you are comfortable with his STD status and that you clean effectively afterwards. Either way, from a man's standopint, it is great either way