Worried and need advice

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Registered: 04-07-2006
Worried and need advice
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Fri, 04-07-2006 - 1:46pm
I was with a new guy the other day and we started fooling around. My first question is if a guy touches himself and then fingers the girl, can you get pregnant? And my second question is can you catch any std's from oral sex?
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 04-07-2006 - 4:13pm

Hi hbpc26, welcome!

>>if a guy touches himself and then fingers the girl, can you get pregnant?<<

Theoretically, yes, but the conditions would have to be just right. She would have to be fertile and have fertile cervical mucus (FCM) in her vagina or on her labia. There can be a few sperm in his pre-ejaculate and millions in his ejaculate. If he had any of his fluids on his fingers and then touched her and his sperm reached her FCM then there is the possibility, although very slight, that an unintended pregnancy could occur.

>>can you catch any std's from oral sex?<<

Yes you can, but it's less likely than if you have unprotected penis/vagina intercourse. That's why it's always a good idea for partners in a new relationship to be tested for STDs before intimacy so any necessary precautions can be taken.

Thanks for stopping by. If you have more questions, please ask. Let us know how you're doing, ok?

Take care,

      Jill