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| Sun, 07-09-2006 - 6:31pm |
I am 33 and just started dating a new guy 2 weeks ago. I am afraid he is going to have a small penis and I will be embarrassed for him so I am scared to get naked with him. I had a boyfriend once that had the smallest man part EVER and I was embarrassed for him when I first saw it. I hated that feeling and don't want to feel it again. Has anyone ever felt this way?
Also, how do you get over being nervous about getting more intimate with a guy? I get so nervous that I kind of avoid the situation. That makes me feel like such a loser. Help?

Jill
THANKS SO MUCH, JILL!!!
I didn't see him in a Speedo, but I have slept over there 3 nights and two times I think I've seen a bulge coming from his undies and the bulge was not big. Maybe he wasn't hard. (I feel funny typing such personal things... lol!) I don't think I care if he's big or not... just enough to feel him in there. I had a boyfriend who I absolutly loved and couldn't always tell if he was in me or not. That really wasn't too fun all the time.
I do like the Harry Potter saying! Good point!
I think him and I need to get to know each other better before we have sex. I will feel more emotionally attached and will enjoy sex much better if I know him better. He doesn't talk much so I don't know him well yet.
I really appreciate your .02 cents.
Thanks!!!
So, we had sex.
3x in one night and 1x the next morning. It was good. I am looking forward to getting more comfortable with him and not so shy so I can have more fun.
yea!
I'm old fashioned. I am 31..and I wouldn't rush into the sack with this guy. First, take it easy..enjoy the company and get a 'feel' for who he is before considering sex. I am sure he is also just as nervous. My husband, was with this girl that smelled REAL REAL bad down there. He told me after that experience, it was very difficult for him to actually get intimate!
Everyone has something they fear or can't take.
I wouldn't worry so much over it. And if he turns out to have a small man part, well I don't know. Look past it...(shouldn't be hard) Sorry..had to jab! haha...what do u consider small?