Married and still a virgin!
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Married and still a virgin!
| Fri, 07-21-2006 - 1:54pm |
Hi-
I got married almost two weeks ago and I haven't been able to have sex with my husband. I have never had sexual intercourse neither has my husband so we are not experienced. We were really happy about finally being able to make love but it has been a couple of hard weeks. We have tried many times but it hurts a lot. I don't know if it is because my hymen is not breaking or because I have a narrow vagina. It is very frustrating and I was just wondering if anybody had a similar experience with it being too painful and if there was any advice on how to overcome this.
Thanks

Hi alrims, welcome!
Jill
It is such refreshing news to see two people that are still virgins at marriage!
Congrats and here's to a long, happy and healthy marriage!
WHEN I STARTED HAVING INTERCOURCE IT WAS VERY PAINFUL TOO, VERY PAINFUL, MY HUSBAND WAS EXTREMLY PATIENT AND GENTLE WITH ME. IT TOOK ME MORE THAN A YEAR FOR ME TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT PAIN (REALLY). I DONT THINK YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. MANY WOMEN GO THROUGH THIS, THEY JUST DONT TALK ABOUT IT.