Married and still a virgin!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2006
Married and still a virgin!
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Fri, 07-21-2006 - 1:54pm

Hi-

I got married almost two weeks ago and I haven't been able to have sex with my husband. I have never had sexual intercourse neither has my husband so we are not experienced. We were really happy about finally being able to make love but it has been a couple of hard weeks. We have tried many times but it hurts a lot. I don't know if it is because my hymen is not breaking or because I have a narrow vagina. It is very frustrating and I was just wondering if anybody had a similar experience with it being too painful and if there was any advice on how to overcome this.

Thanks

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:23pm

Hi alrims, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 07-22-2006 - 9:25pm

It is such refreshing news to see two people that are still virgins at marriage!

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Registered: 07-21-2006
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 3:25pm
Hi! I am back and happy to report that I finally lost my virginity. I was scared of going to the doctor and get checked so after my post we kept trying but nothing. I think we were both very frustrated but finally past Sunday we were feeling more relaxed and it happened. I took out an appointment with the doctor yesterday and got checked and had a pap smear done (my first one) and she said that everything looks okay and that my hymen is gone. I feel very happy and we had sex last night and it felt good. Anyways just wanted to say thank you for your suggestions.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 7:57pm

Congrats and here's to a long, happy and healthy marriage!

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Registered: 08-22-2006
Tue, 08-22-2006 - 12:42pm
I UNDERSTAND, BECAUSE WHEN MY HUSBAND AND I STARTED TO HAVE SEX, I WAS A VIRGEN TOO.
WHEN I STARTED HAVING INTERCOURCE IT WAS VERY PAINFUL TOO, VERY PAINFUL, MY HUSBAND WAS EXTREMLY PATIENT AND GENTLE WITH ME. IT TOOK ME MORE THAN A YEAR FOR ME TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT PAIN (REALLY). I DONT THINK YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. MANY WOMEN GO THROUGH THIS, THEY JUST DONT TALK ABOUT IT.