can things be any more confusing?!
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| Fri, 08-11-2006 - 2:18pm |
Hello... this is going to be long... but it seems like problems are just compounding. When me and my boyfriend started having sex, it was great, no problems or anything. Then one night we got a little crazy and started a little too fast and we ended up with blood everywhere and we couldn't tell who was bleeding. There was blood on him and blood in me and it was scary, we figured out that, because he's uncircumcized the friction was pulling too much on him and it caused a small tear in the skin that connects to the head of his penis. He's seen the doctor and they told him that we could still have sex, but that we would need to be careful. So, we started using lubrication and things have been going alright, but after each time we have sex it takes him longer to heal again afterwards.
In the last few weeks, we've been finding strange white 'stuff' coming out of me while having sex, and it's causing irritation.. or he thinks that's what's causing it. We don't know what the white stuff is, or if the irritation he's having (he feels burning and his foreskin gets swollen and red). We are really kinda freaking out now because we have no clue what to think of this.. he keeps asking me if there's any way I can flush it out of me.. but I don't know how I would do that. We also started using a new lubricant recently and I'm unsure if that's what's causing the problem, and I am on birth control but I don't know.. it just seems strange. Any thoughts?
Thanks!

Hi mandarenee06, welcome!
Jill