help for a large vagina

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Registered: 08-08-2006
help for a large vagina
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Tue, 08-22-2006 - 4:18pm

my boyfriend says that we aren't compitable when we have sex cause either my vagina is too big or he's penis size long/gurth is large enough. He claims that we can't seem to get it together when having sex but he is able to cum.

I've never had anyone ever tell me my vagigi was too big! Help!!

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Tue, 08-22-2006 - 9:46pm

Hi tiredofbadboy, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Thu, 08-24-2006 - 11:40pm
Does it feel normal to you or is it just him noticing it? I have this vague worry that I have this problem. I have an off and on relationship with a guy who I'm intimate with (he's 43, I'm 49).. He hasn't said anything, but I guess I worry that that's what's wrong with our relationship. I didn't have sex for a very long time after my divorce and now I'm very insecure. I'm planning to go to my Dr. for an exam and see if she can put my fears to rest or tell me what I should do. Any other reccomendations besides kegels. Positions(I've heard doggie style, which he always likes...I worry so much, I think this is why he likes it cause it doesn't feel good to him otherwise, although we do a couple of other positions....), herbal treatments, etc?
Mary
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Registered: 08-08-2006
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 1:24pm

Thanks for replying. It's him that notices and I now feel very insecure about having sex with him. The biggest isssue is that he is cheating on me with a woman who has not had children and I've had two. So......he has something to compare to! I have never had anyone say there was an issue with my vagigi!! But....as we get older (45 next week) our bodies change and perhaps that is one area we need to focus on.

I did some research on the net and ordered the KegelMeister ($100). Terri Hatcher swears by it and I saw her interview on the Jay Leno show awhile ago when she talked about it. The device is guaranteed to strengthen the walls of the vagina also immediately! I can't wait for it to arrive.

I'll let you know how it works!

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 1:40pm
Thanks for sharing your situation and info. Helps to hear from someone in a similar situation, not something I feel comfortable talking about with anyone in real life....Wish I would have seen the Leno show. I've heard of that Kegelmaster. It might be worth it, maybe faster and better results than just the kegels. Oh, the problems of dating and relationships in our 40's......Hope to hear how the kegelmaster works out and sorry to hear about the cheating, that REALLY sucks.
Mary
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Registered: 08-24-2006
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 1:56pm
What did you think of that other response you got, the one about the balls? Had you heard of that or consider trying it? Sounds like something you could walk into a store and pick up and not cost a $100. I don't know why, but I wondered if maybe accupuncture might help....I'm really stuck on figuring this out. I look good, I feel good, but this makes me feel old and insecure.
Mary
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 2:11pm

Hi qcmm, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 3:12pm

>>The device is guaranteed to strengthen the walls of the vagina also immediately!>>


      Jill

    

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Registered: 03-04-2008
Tue, 03-04-2008 - 5:14am
sorry i have to tell you this...dump the idiot! I would dump him right away when he says my vigina is too big. Even if it's big, i don't need another person to tell me so especially my partner. He doesn't respect you at all. Now that he cheated on you...only because you let it happen...cuz he made you think that you are big and it's ok for him to cheat
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Registered: 05-22-2007
Sat, 03-08-2008 - 8:01pm

Hi, just lurking on this board and saw this thread.

Sue the Ho
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Registered: 03-24-2003
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 2:03pm

I agree!

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