No Sex in 3 Years

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Registered: 08-25-2006
No Sex in 3 Years
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Fri, 08-25-2006 - 10:15pm
Help. I have been with my husband for 20 years and never enjoyed sex with him. He verbally abused me the first 10 years and that made our sex life miserable. So between bad sex and harsh name calling along with his temper, I have little respect in him. He did seek counseling and it helped tremendously, however, that does not heal the old wounds. He is now interested in trying to help our relationship by having sex but I don't want to. I have been in my prime for 15 years and I do want sex but I am afraid now that since we haven't had sex in years. Is there anyone else in the same situation?
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: dkohler
Sat, 08-26-2006 - 12:49pm

Hi

      Jill

    

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: dkohler
Sun, 08-27-2006 - 12:14am

Hi and welcome :)


I am so glad your hubby sought counseling and is doing much better.

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Registered: 08-25-2006
In reply to: dkohler
Mon, 08-28-2006 - 1:19pm
Thank you for your advice. Perhaps I will check into your sister site for more advice.