Curious as to whats going on with me

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Registered: 09-12-2006
Curious as to whats going on with me
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Tue, 09-12-2006 - 6:05pm

I'm a Freshman in College, and I have a bit of a problem. Whenever I have sex, I get overloaded really easily. Like, I'll be in the middle of having sex and my body gets tingling and numb all over. I usually loose some control in my arm. After sex, for a litle while(maybe 5 minutes or so), I can't move my hands normally, like their clamped up. I can't open my eyes too well either, and can't move my mouth/talk to much as well.

I've been sexually active for about a year. I wouldn't say I've had alot of sex, but that type of occurance happens every time, in varying degrees. Before I was sexually active, it would happen occasionally, if i was being fingered and such, but not as strong. I never really thought too much about it, until the last guy I was with, brought it up, curious as to why that happened.

None of my friends can help me, or understand what I'm talking about, so I'm just curious as to whats going on.

Thanks.

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 9:55pm

Hi cavanaughsmonotony, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 03-18-2006
Mon, 09-18-2006 - 6:40pm

Im not sure what that is or why it would happen every time you have sex. It could the position your in or you having an orgasm or him just touching your "sweet" spot, who knows. I've been sexually active for 3 year(im 20) & everytime i have sex my body would get numb & i would get really cold with the chills. I never knew why that would happen until one day my bf & i were doing it and he touched a certain spot on my neck & my whole body went numb, legs got weak like i was about to fall, & i got the chills really bad. What i found out is i had a "sweet" spot & everytime it was touched i would have that reaction. Soon enough i had the same reaction when he touched a certain part of my back & the same thing happened again. It could just be nothing, but if your really concerned about it you can go to the doctor & ask them about it. HTH

Nicole