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| Wed, 11-01-2006 - 5:54pm |
I spent too many years in a bad relationship to start. I've been single and raising two kids for the last 5 years and I've been busy. It was fine until about 6 months ago. I forgot a birthday and when I realized I was in fact 31 and not 30 I can't stop wanting to have sex. In order to avoid this I picked up a second job and got busier. It worked for a while but now I'm back to not being able to do anything but want to have sex and I can't seem to find anyone. I've grown acustom to my life with the kids and don't want anyone to move in and tell me how to live my life and what to do. I don't want the problems that all my girl friends have with their bf's all I want is someone to come over and have sex with me when my kids are at their dad's. I thought this concept would be a simple one but I can't seem to find that guy. I'm not sure that I want a bunch of one night stands but at this point I'll settle for anything. Am I nuts? Am I crazy? I found this guy who said he didn't want anything serious which is perfect but I think I drove him away. I'm not sure how I did that one. We went out okay not out but he made dinner and we had sex and then I went home and helped kids with homework and didn't talk to him till he called but then he went all nuts and told his friend that he was sure he didn't want a relationship and has been all weird since. I didn't mention a relationship or even call him. I let him call me and I just can't stand my life. I have not had sex more than 2 times in the last 4 years and I just can't seem to get busy enough to make this go away. What do I do? What can I do? Nothing is working and I'm just going nuts and just want someone. Anyone will do. Is it too much to try find a guy just to have sex with on the weekends? Does there have to be some kind of relationship involved? Why are all the guys I meet such girls. My needs are simple. Help.

Hi itsgoodtobeme, welcome!
Jill
Hi again itsgoodtobeme, welcome back!
Jill