My husband claims to have no interest in

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Registered: 11-09-2006
My husband claims to have no interest in
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Thu, 11-09-2006 - 11:52pm
now you can stop stalking and reading my personal business


Edited 3/9/2007 12:50 am ET by maddiemarcello
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 11-10-2006 - 12:24pm

Hi maddiemarcello, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 11-14-2006
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 10:45pm
Hey ,
So sorry to hear you are going through this. I understand you may have ANGER! FRUSTRATION! Sadness and feel very alone, I can go on and on.
I am so sick to of this crap his man hood, his feelings, his idenity ect..
This is NOT YOUR FAULT AT ALL!!!!!!!!!
Mayby he has a problem with some past authority and if you are at all smart or self sufficient, he might see that as a threat, or mayby he is selfish and lazy and prefers to handle things him self.
Or mayby he is quick to the draw. In any case you have given him time and he won't. See that he is Hurting you.
I can tell you it will not get better no matter how hard you try .
If he tries it will get better. He needs to make the effort to seek help.
He may say he is sorry and get better for a day a week or even a month , but if he does not seek help THIS IS ALL THERE IS!!
IF you can handle that because he is a great guy and all is well in ever other area than god bless.
I can tell you more women then will admit have the same complant. But want us all to think different because it could not be the MAN, Something must be wrong with her. BUll!!
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Registered: 09-22-2006
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 9:55am
Well girl i am going threw the same thing as you.My husband always tells me he is old.
He is only 45. He tells me that he is going to the Drs and never does and everytime
I want to talk to him about it he changes the subject.