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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2006
Help
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Wed, 11-22-2006 - 1:20am
I've been having sex for about a year now and I haven't had an orgasm. Whenever I think something is about to happen I get this feeling where everything sort of tenses up..it's not a bad feeling but it's deffinatley not a good one either. After that I get this sort of pulsing feeling there where it kind of tightens with each pulse(I don't know how to really explain it) but I don't know what to do, any help?
I would go to the doctor, but i'll admit i'm a little embarassed.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: ended_coverage
Wed, 11-22-2006 - 9:34pm

Hi

      Jill

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2006
In reply to: ended_coverage
Thu, 11-23-2006 - 3:01pm
Thank you for replying, I think it's great that there's boards like these where people actually reply and try to help.
Yes I have tried that and the same thing happens. I'm not sure what it is but I just don't feel that pleasure there.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: ended_coverage
Thu, 11-23-2006 - 4:34pm

Hi again hon,


      Jill

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2006
In reply to: ended_coverage
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 8:01pm

Thank you so much for posting the information regarding masturbation, I am in my 30's and just recently discovered my own amazing touch. The site gave me more ideas to try by myself and with my spouse. I have a feeling tonight is going to be a good one!!

Shannon