Y can't I enjoy being turned on???
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Y can't I enjoy being turned on???
| Thu, 11-30-2006 - 3:17pm |
So I'm finally in a healthy relationship with a guy who's my best friend. I'm still a virgin and we take things along my paste which is great. However I was raised with a religious strict mother and grew up feeling guilty for being turned on. I’m finding my own independence and learning I can make my own decisions whether or not my mother would approve. So sex will come when me and my guy are ready however when we fool around with foreplay the furthest we've gone is just with hands. It's great and amazing till I start feeling really bad. I’ve talked to him about this and at times I’ve tried to push through it but I’m about ready to cry so he sees this and stops. He thinks it’s a good thing because it will keep us from rushing into things but I hate how much I want to enjoy it but can’t afterwards. I can't explore my sexuality I feel. I feel bad for getting so turned on. Is this normal? How do I change it?

Hi
Jill