help - he comes too quickly!!!

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Registered: 12-03-2006
help - he comes too quickly!!!
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Sun, 12-03-2006 - 8:15pm


maybe someone can help me;

my boyfriend and i have an amazing relationship and a great sex life. however, we tend to only have oral or 'manual' sex, this is because he comes really quickly.
he finds this very difficult to deal with, understandably. we can talk about it, and although he can totally satisfy me in other ways we are keen to be able to have 'proper' sex..!

maybe i should be posting on askmen.com.. but does anyone have anything to say that might help??

we are in our mid 20s and have been together for 3 months.

thanks!

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Sun, 12-03-2006 - 10:07pm

Hi lubu2006, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 05-31-2006
Tue, 12-05-2006 - 1:03am
my bf and i have the same problem we have been dating for 3 years. we have learned to get around it. while your having sex make your man stop if he feels like hes gonna cum. it makes him practice self control. my bf lasts a lot longer now then he did before. hope this helps.
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Registered: 07-01-2005
Sat, 12-09-2006 - 2:18am
my fiance can control it too. have you tried to buy a penis ring or there is a cream that some adult stores sell too.

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