please help...:0(

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Registered: 07-13-2006
please help...:0(
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Fri, 12-15-2006 - 10:35pm
Hey everyone...I have a question for everyone. Ever since my boyfriend has started to finger me during and after I have been bleeding pretty bad, even into the next day. I thought that this was going to go away since it was my first time doing this, but it's been going on for months now. We are in a long distance relationship and only get to see each other about once a month and it happens every night that we are together. And it seems that it is almost always worse the second night that we are together, and then it is almost always accompanied by pain (so much that I usually have to make him stop). I'm wondering if this is normal because it is starting to scare me a bit and is annoying the both of us. Please help if you guys have any ideas :0)
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 12-15-2006 - 11:56pm

Hi hockeyx91, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 07-13-2006
Sat, 12-16-2006 - 2:41am

Thanks so much for the response Jill! That makes me feel much better about everything, I actually have one more question though...I actually did have a recent pelvic exam and my cells came back looking somewhat abnormal. Thats why this whole deal worries me so much. I read online that it could be a cyst or something that could be reopening ever time we do something, thats what scares me the most. Its just really hard to deal with especially since I am still on my parents insurace and I could never tell them that I had to go to the doctor for something like that.

So I guess for now just give it all a break until I know what's going on or is it still of to go about things?

Thanks so much for the help, you all are amazing!

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Sat, 12-16-2006 - 2:31pm

Hi again hon,


      Jill

    

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Registered: 12-17-2006
Sun, 12-17-2006 - 4:02pm
im trying to find out how to ask a question i cant find where to ask it can u help
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Sun, 12-17-2006 - 8:16pm

Hi sassyt1975, welcome!


      Jill