Just not interested!
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| Mon, 12-18-2006 - 10:32am |
Hi everyone, my name is Amy and I am new to this board.
Well, let's just say I have a problem. To make a long story short, I'm not interested in sex anymore. I have a boyfriend who I love with all my heart, we have been together for a year and a half. I find that I am just not interested in sex at all. I know that it bothers him and I feel really bad about it. I wish that I could find out what is causing this problem! Sometimes I find that I don't really want to be touched.
I have been on paxil for a few years, for an anxiety disorder and I know that it has sexual side effects. Changing the medication is not an option because I tried and my anxiety became paralizing!
I hope there is something that I can do to fix this! Sometimes I just find it gross, or it just doesn't feel right. My boyfriend and I never really get privacy because we are currently living with his mother (we're 22 years old and saving to buy a house) and there aren't any doors on the bedrooms. (I know it's weird don't even ask lol) I am just left wondering where my sex drive has gone and what I could do to bring it back!
Help!
Amy

Hi amy_a2006, welcome!
Jill
Hi there!
Thanks a bunch for your reply! I am on BCP's and have been for 8 years. If I can find another effective form of BC I would love to try it!
I will post on the other board.
Thank you!
Amy
Thanks for voicing yourself, so I know I'm not alone! Good Luck!
Hi
Jill
Not on BC...after 5 kids, husband is "snipped". My husband & I started reading a book together that may help. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. This libido thing may be as simple as a communication/understanding problem. We'll see. The book is definately helping me understand him better.
I'll keep you posted.
Hi again mom_svanasmls, welcome back!
Jill