No feeling, no libido :-(
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No feeling, no libido :-(
| Thu, 01-11-2007 - 6:15pm |
Hello,
There are many posts about lost libido and the such, but to add to this I have absolutely no feeling during sex, only afterwards when it hurts. During foreplay it's not quite so bad but as soon as anything goes in, that's it, feels like I've been jabbed with a numbing solution. Throughout sex I'm always wishing for my boyfriend to hurry up and finish then I can stop pretending I'm enjoying myself when really I'm not, and he knows it. I don't enjoy sex anymore, I start to dread it at night when we head to bed 'cause I know he'll want to and I seem to end up doing it out of guilt more than enjoyment and pleasure. Is there anything that can be suggested to either help feeling-wise or how to increase libido. I am currently taking cilest, could this possibly be the main factor in the libido loss? Maybe?
Any ideas....?
Ta
There are many posts about lost libido and the such, but to add to this I have absolutely no feeling during sex, only afterwards when it hurts. During foreplay it's not quite so bad but as soon as anything goes in, that's it, feels like I've been jabbed with a numbing solution. Throughout sex I'm always wishing for my boyfriend to hurry up and finish then I can stop pretending I'm enjoying myself when really I'm not, and he knows it. I don't enjoy sex anymore, I start to dread it at night when we head to bed 'cause I know he'll want to and I seem to end up doing it out of guilt more than enjoyment and pleasure. Is there anything that can be suggested to either help feeling-wise or how to increase libido. I am currently taking cilest, could this possibly be the main factor in the libido loss? Maybe?
Any ideas....?
Ta

Hi
Jill
do u miss that feeling of i mean good sex. Do u have a good relationship? i feel that
if you are open and are okay with your self then well i cant spit this out with out making myself sound silly. any i feel the same way u do i can not wait for him to get off me so we could be done. but deep down i really want to have the most hot sex ever. it is so frustrating.. Is it to allsoooo i hope u over come this as i do i think my has a lot to do with a loving mate i have lost that some where down the road.. well i have not help u probbly not but i feel for u. wish u luck. keep us posted...
What you guys are talking about is exactly the way I feel and what's really sad is that I've only been married a little over a year and I was a virgin when I got married and sex just isn't what I thought it would be because I'm assuming my birth control messed up my hormones and I just don't feel anything one way or the other. I've been off birth control for I guess 8 months and I was just wondering how long it would take for the feeling to some back or would I have to take some kind of pill for that?
Thanks
Kellie
Thanks for your advice!
Hi again aspiringlawyer,
Jill