Crying After Sex

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Registered: 02-01-2007
Crying After Sex
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Thu, 02-01-2007 - 9:09am
Here is the problem. My fience and I moved in togather almost a year ago befor that we were living with my mom. Now every time we have sex my fience cries after she finishes. Neither of us know why this is happening, or how to fix it. she says she is uncomfortable talking about sex which mkes it even harder. she told me its not recent either she said she would have cried at my moms but she thought they might hear her. I was her "first" except for an x who got too excited and tried without permission. According to her she pusshed him away as soon as she figured out it wasnt a finger inside her. and to this day isnt sure if she thinks of it as rape or not. i have no idea if that has anything to do with the problem or not. Any advice on what i can do to help her would be very welcome.
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 11:46am

Hi Guy, welcome!


      Jill