After sex....what does he mean?

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Registered: 07-26-2006
After sex....what does he mean?
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Sun, 02-11-2007 - 6:41pm
So this guy and I had amazing mind blowing sex for the first time we cuddled for a while then got showered and dressed and went out to eat @ this really cozy fire place lit romantic resteraunt. Which was his idea he like insited one it.
The we began talking about what happenend bc it was totally spontaneous, we started kissing and one thing led to another but neither of us were planning on having sex,at least I wasn't and he said he wasn't either.
So we're saying how we shouldn't have done it but it feel so awsome ane he says let's take it slow. At first it didn't click then 5 mins later I asked him did he say for me to take it slow and he said no he said and mean "we" should take it slow.
I am totally confused here before we hung out we were talking on the phone earlier that day and he's like omg I can't believe how much I like you and ur amazing all that gooshy good stuff lol.
And then right before sex after he kissed me he says "I could really see myself liking you alot". And I kissed him right after he said that and didn't ask for an explination.
He was in a relationship for 6 years and just got out of it about 7/8 months ago now and says he's ready to date and what not...but I'm not sure.
He asked me to come back over this weekend and say the weekend with him and he made a joke saying we aren't going out anywhere we're going to have sex all weekend.
Not to mention we had sex like 3 more times including this morn and he's now like kissing my forehead and grabbing my hand calling me baby...but it seems like he's ready for sex and not a relationship.
HELP ME PLEASE lol ;)
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Mon, 02-12-2007 - 1:13am

Hi sweet_lax_player2008, welcome!


      Jill