WHAT do I do with him, he cant touch me?

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Registered: 02-18-2007
WHAT do I do with him, he cant touch me?
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Sun, 02-18-2007 - 12:42pm

My boyfriend HATES TOUCHING ME DOWN THERE AND CANT STAND THE THOUGHT OF GOING DOWN ON ME!

He has never been down on a girl and I am the first girl he has ever touched for longer than 1 minute. He says that he feels disguisted by that. I am not sure what to do???? I am VERY clean, I wax continually and I only ask to have sex right after a shower.
We have been together 8 months and have had sex 3 times all together. He also says he cant get off with a girl, he has to see porn and then jack off to cum. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Sun, 02-18-2007 - 2:07pm

hi crazyloli, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Sun, 02-25-2007 - 11:48am
Personally I'd think you're better off breaking up with him. I've been with someone like that before, and it just ends up eating away at your self esteem. He sounds like he has some major hangups about sex, and unless he's going to do some serious counseling, nothing is ever going to change. You deserve someone who loves you and wants to be with you, not a guy who's disgusted by you.
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Registered: 04-01-2007
Sun, 04-01-2007 - 10:08pm

I am sorry about your problem.

I have never heard of that before, which makes me think the real problem is him. I have never met a guy who doesnt find touching a woman down there arousing. You deserve someone who loves you completely, including your vagina. It seems like this guy has some real emotion problems or is just not attracted to women at all.