pain from sex

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Registered: 02-22-2007
pain from sex
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Thu, 02-22-2007 - 6:12pm
The other day my boyfriend and I had sex. Sometimes in certain positions it hurts-(I thought maybe it’s because the specific area (deep inside) is rarely touched?). After reading some romance novels in which the girl loses her virginity in a mixture of pain and ecstasy, and getting the big O, I thought, gee, after 3 years I still haven’t had an orgasm. Do girls actually continue “going” at it even if it hurts? And after it’s done, does she ache? Because I tested this (telling him to go hard), and feeling a bit of pain is better than feeling nothing at all, if you know what I mean, but then my lower abs started to hurt (like a menstrual cramp). Shortly after I asked to stop and the pain kept escalating. It was the most painful thing ever. The pain dug deep and sent feverish icicles throughout my body, I clutched my stomach. The worse feeling was feeling like I wanted to vomit. Finally, after a half an hour, I puked, and I felt little better. I couldn’t fall asleep, and I just kept praying that the pain would go away. Two days later and although my stomach doesn’t hurt as bad, it still hurts. Did I bruise it? Is this normal? I’m not sure if it was the G spot or a whole other spot. (doggystyle by the way) I’m not sure if I want to try it again. I’m staying away from sex for a while but I still want to know if this is common?
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: yourkeeper
Thu, 02-22-2007 - 10:29pm

Hi yourkeeper, welcome!


      Jill