Sex is initially painful

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Registered: 05-18-2003
Sex is initially painful
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Thu, 06-14-2007 - 11:33pm
My current boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and in the last month or so when he goes to enter me it feels like he is tearing something to the point where I wince. The rest of sex is great but afterwards there is a little bit of blood leading me to believe I am continuously retearing something. We have been haveing more sex than before b/c we are now comfortable with each other and in the phase where everything is amazing...minus the first 10 seconds. It's getting to the point where I tense up right before sex b/c I know it will hurt. Any suggestions on what's going on and/or what I can do to prevent it from continuing? THANKS!!!
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 3:07pm

Hi mnshne22, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 05-18-2003
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 9:53pm
I guess I didn't realize how much more specific I could get with my question. When he penetrates, it hurts in the front and it's on the outside or close enough to the top that it's within the first half inch. I DID just start up on birth control almost two months ago and had a pap smear done at the time. Everything came back negative. I think that's everything...thanks for the help!
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:48pm

Hi again mnshne22,


      Jill