Painful Sex

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Registered: 07-19-2005
Painful Sex
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 10:31pm
 

I have already read all of the posts about painful sex to see if I could get some answers, so before I start, I will go ahead and rule out all of the things people have said might be the problem.


I am not a virgin.  This has never happened before, and I have been with my fiance for 8 months (who has a large member) and there have never been any problems.


There is not a lubrication problem, nor is there a "me not being aroused enough" problem.


The story:


Then he was gone on business for 2 weeks, and when he got home we made up for lost time.  I guess too much sex led to me getting ripped down there.  After I was ripped, any insertion down there was out of the question, so we went without sex for a week. 


After the week was over, we tried to have sex and it was very very painful.  It felt like something was going to rip down there again, so we too it very very slow over the past week and still haven't been able to get it more than 2-3 inches in...(which isn't much on him b/c he's 7.5in long and 7in wide at the base)... and his width is also a big problem in getting it in.  Sex is painful and it feels like it's just going to rip again, and there is a ton of pressure because the opening is so small. 


I am very confused because it's hard to believe that one rip (on the lower part of the outside, closest to me butt) could cause my opening to shrink so much.  I don't even think I was this small when I was a virgin.  PLEASE help with any advice. 

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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: allikat375
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 12:12am

Hi allikat375, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 12-25-2008
In reply to: allikat375
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 4:18pm
It seems like you can’t reflex your organ and you don't have enough lubricant which makes sex possible and cures vagina. I advise you to try Sentia pills which make woman's organ healthier. I had the problem of painful sex for several years and thought it was my bf who couldn't arouse me, but the problem was the lack of lubricant. Sentia helped me a lot, so I highly advise you trying it.