libido help

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Registered: 10-02-2007
libido help
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Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:16pm
hello all. i'm new here. i've just turned 28 and have had minimal to no libido for about 10 years now. i have talked to many doctors, even changing doctors, and no one seems to believe me or take it seriously. i have researched and researched natural supplements to see if there is anything i can take to try to increase it. just wondering if anyone here has any suggestions. it can be a severe source of conflict in my marriage. but it started before my husband and i were even together so it's not a matter of needing to try new things or anything like that. thanks in advance!



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Edited 10/15/2007 12:23 pm ET by heroineinpink
i would rather be hated for what i am, than loved for what i'm not.
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: heroineinpink
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 7:02pm

Hi heroineinpink, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 10-02-2007
In reply to: heroineinpink
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 8:03pm
i haven't been on bc since i was 22. i was on it when it first started, but then was off and it made no difference. then got back on it after i had my daughter. then off when i had my tubes tied at 22. about the same time i started having fatigue issues as well. i have been to an internal medicine dr who ran some blood work and everything checked out normal. just a little low on b vitamin but nothing drastic. thyroid problems run in my family so that was my main concern of getting checked. does it have to be a endocrinologist? so i can get to the right person this time. oh, and thanks for the reply!!


i would rather be hated for what i am than loved for what i'm not....







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i would rather be hated for what i am, than loved for what i'm not.
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: heroineinpink
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 9:59pm

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      Jill

    

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Registered: 10-02-2007
In reply to: heroineinpink
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 6:09pm
thanks again for the info. my thyroid tested out fine. that was just the reason i got the blood work done. i will go in to have some done again as soon as i can. that was a few years ago. we're getting ready to get new insurance and they cover lab work whereas the insurance i have now doesn't. so i'll have to see what they can find out.


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i would rather be hated for what i am, than loved for what i'm not.
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Registered: 10-25-2007
In reply to: heroineinpink
Sat, 10-27-2007 - 11:46am
Gosh girl I wish
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Registered: 01-02-2004
In reply to: heroineinpink
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 11:05pm
I am in the same boat 28 and haven't had sex in a month. i could go for years and be happy if it wasn't for my husband.