Newlywed Sex Problems...Advice please!

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Registered: 10-16-2007
Newlywed Sex Problems...Advice please!
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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 11:31am

Okay so we got married about a year ago. Our sex life was great before we got married and all of a sudden we're lucky if we have sex more than twice a month. He's either too tired, or distracted, or busy....His desire for me doesn't seem to be there anymore. Even on our wedding night...it was weird.


It's really frustrating and we've had fights about it. If I don't initiate anything, he'd just go without. I don't know what to do, but it's frustrating that he won't meet my needs even though I do my best to meet his. It's actually making me very depressed. I know he loves me and I know he's not cheating on me, but it's driving me crazy. It makes me second guess myself (do I suddly stink? look ugly? what about me makes me unappealing?) Frankly, I think I'm gorgeous. I look the same, so I don't quite understand what the problem is.


 


Any advice? Suggestions?

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 1:25pm

Hi naymeister, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 08-17-2006
Fri, 10-19-2007 - 1:35pm
I agree, now that your married, the chase is over...but I also think some couples just have different sex drives.