Painful Sex due to Large Penis Size

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Registered: 10-16-2007
Painful Sex due to Large Penis Size
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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 5:11pm

I've had to post this question on a message board because everytime I enter the keywords on this topic in a search engine all I obtain are porn sites.


My husband's penis is fairly large.  It's always been uncomfortable to a degree for the 3 years we've been together, but I think it was easier to have sexual desire when things were new.  We're now very used to each other, and it's become harder for me to get excited about sex since it still can be uncomfortable and occasionally painful.  Lubrication does not help the issue.  It also seems that every position we try can be uncomfortable, especially when he gets excited he goes deeper.  I know there's nothing to do regarding his size, and he's never objected to me shifting him around, I just feel terrible that I don't want him as much as he wants me.  As you can imagine, the alternative of oral sex is uncomfortable in it's own way for the same reasons.


I'm at a loss as to what to do/say to my husband.  Was hoping someone out there has gone through this, and can offer some advice.


 


 


 

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 11:46am

Hi tenderlovingcare2007, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 10-16-2007
Thu, 10-18-2007 - 7:11pm

Thank you very much for your thorough advice!