pain/burning during intercourse

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
pain/burning during intercourse
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Mon, 10-22-2007 - 6:09pm

I find intercourse to have painful/sore feeling and like his penis won't fit. My DH and I never do it because of this. It is taking a toll on him. I tried recently again and it is the same pain. He said that he was barely an inch in. No matter how much I relax or lube, it is this same feeling. Yes, I've been to the gyn. She said I have too thick of a hymen o-ring and could be taken care of through surgery. This is something I DO NOT want to do.

I'm here just wondering if any of you have this pain during intercourse and how to get it so sex actually feels good like they all say.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 11:47pm

Hi

      Jill

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-07-2008
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 4:21pm
well when i have sex it hurts to well i only had relations 2 time and the first time it hurt it and the second time too. i don't know what to do it make me not want to have sex no more
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2008
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 10:12am
pain may cause by using the wrong position or angle either his penis not fit yet... try others position or other angle... may figure out the better way for it to into... can be very smooth and easy to done..... otherwise the hymen is too thick... but still... may have others causes
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-24-2003
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 2:12pm

Don't give up on having sex, but maybe listen to your body because it sounds like it's not ready for it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-22-2008
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:20pm
How old are you? I am 37 years old and it hurts when I have sexual intercourse. I have been with 3 men in my life.