NO libido 24 y/o help loosing life

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Registered: 11-14-2007
NO libido 24 y/o help loosing life
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Wed, 11-14-2007 - 10:58pm
HI Everyone,

This is my problem I am a 24 y/o female I have always had a very HIGH Libido But the last 6 months absolutely Nothing. My Bf of a year and a half . is 20 we are very much in love to this day there is no problems in our relationship and we we So to speak hot and heavy couple but all of a sudden I either can't get in the mood. When he tries to just be romantic hoping it will help I just get very annoyed anymore. I know he is a wonderful man and Nothing religious family never taunted me or put morals in my head about no sex till I am married nothing so what's the problem . I have gone to doctors and told them About 10 they all say it's in my head . nothing is wrong . Oh it's bad timing (( bad timing every day for 9 months Okay that's a cope out excuse. I am very worried Now he will leave me his sex drive is through the roof. When I do Just have sex it;s like I'm staring at the ceiling . I am very sexual / physically and mentally attracted to him. But My parts don't seem to be  ( help me ) He says he will never leave me but we are arguing a lot I get the sly comments about " We never have sex any more that's why were arguing and I'm starting to think it's true we never had a disagreement or anything PLEASE HELP BEFORE MY RELATIONSHIP ENDS

Any advice or anything is great and will be appreciated
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 11:59pm

Hi loosingmylife, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 11-15-2007
Thu, 11-15-2007 - 10:02am

I know that this happened to me when I was on certain medications...