Weight issues and sex
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| Thu, 11-15-2007 - 9:55am |
Is there anyone out there who has had issues with intimacy and their weight?
I have a very loving friend who so desperately wants to move the relationship to an intimate one. I, too, want to be able to take this step, but I am so worried about my weight. I had a very serious injury one year ago that has caused me to gain about 35 lbs... and everytime I see myself in the mirror, I just get sick. Now, he wants to move forward in the relationship, but I am sooooo concerned about my weight, that I just can't even think about allowing him to see me naked. And YES, I know that he obviously loves me for who I am and not what I look like, but, I still have it in my head that I will be judged...
I HATE that I can't seem to get past this, and wish so much that I didn't feel this way, but I just don't know what I can do to get past this...
Anyone out there successfully dealt with this issue? And if so, got any advice for me?


Hi chantili, welcome!
Jill
Hi Jill,
Thanks for your reply...
If only I could exercise!!!
Hi Chan, welcome back!
Jill