Can this be fixed?

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Can this be fixed?
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Sun, 12-09-2007 - 8:47pm

I have a problem which I'm not sure can be remedied.  When having intercourse, I become excessively lubricated.


It isn't a matter of arousal, as I've had only one partner: my abusive ex-husband.  When he and I had intercourse, more often than not it was him forcing himself on me.  At the start of penetration, I would be tense and dry, but soon become relaxed and very wet, even though I wasn't aroused.


The reason this concerns me, is that my ex once told me I was so wet, it decreased his sensation so that our sex was never very enjoyable to him.  Now that I've found a wonderful new man, someone I want to marry, I'm afraid his experience won't be pleasurable.


From what I can gather, it seems like all other women need to buy personal lubricant... so I can't understand what's wrong with me, or if there's any way to fix my problem.

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 7:01am
Kate, Welcome and congratulations on finding a wonderful man.
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Registered: 12-09-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 12:25pm

Diana,


Thanks so much for your reply and your suggestions, which I'll be sure to try!


Thanks again,


Kate

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 5:12pm
I reread my post and it could be confusing.