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| Sun, 12-09-2007 - 8:47pm |
I have a problem which I'm not sure can be remedied. When having intercourse, I become excessively lubricated.
It isn't a matter of arousal, as I've had only one partner: my abusive ex-husband. When he and I had intercourse, more often than not it was him forcing himself on me. At the start of penetration, I would be tense and dry, but soon become relaxed and very wet, even though I wasn't aroused.
The reason this concerns me, is that my ex once told me I was so wet, it decreased his sensation so that our sex was never very enjoyable to him. Now that I've found a wonderful new man, someone I want to marry, I'm afraid his experience won't be pleasurable.
From what I can gather, it seems like all other women need to buy personal lubricant... so I can't understand what's wrong with me, or if there's any way to fix my problem.

Diana,
Thanks so much for your reply and your suggestions, which I'll be sure to try!
Thanks again,
Kate