embarrassing......

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Registered: 01-08-2008
embarrassing......
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Tue, 01-08-2008 - 7:59pm

I am not sure this is even the correct place to ask this question.

I am in a new relationship. The sex is very, very good but I have had a embarrassing situation happen to me a few times.

When I am on top, the pressure of the orgasm is very intense and causes me to pass out a small amount of waste material (OMG! can you say mortified!). The first time it happened (the first time we had sex, no less) I just wanted to crawl under the nearest rock. I tried to clear it up and hide it but he caught on. He tried to joke around about it to lighten the mood but he quickly picked up that I was embarrassed about it and dropped the subject. The second time, I was able to take care of it without him knowing. I am pretty sure that it recently happened again only he took care of it for me. I think he thought I did not know it happened and was saving me the embarrassment.

I always hit the bathroom before we go to bed, just that very reason - to try to prevent any accidents from happening.

Does anyone else have this problem, and if they do - what do you do?

Thanks.

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 8:27pm

Actually, if you've already gone to the bathroom before having sex, it COULD be a female ejaculation -- and instead of being embarassed, you are one lucky female because very few are able to do that!


Female ejaculate is a fluid that is expelled from the body through the urethra during sexual activities. When released in small quantities it may be a mucous like fluid having a clear, milky, or yellowish coloration. As the volume of the expelled fluid increases it becomes like clear water. In small quantities it may have a distinct scent that is musky or pungent but when the fluid increases in volume and becomes clear there is no longer a detectable scent.

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Registered: 01-08-2008
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 9:13pm

I am one of the lucky that does ejaculate. It took me a very, very long long time to become comfortable with my "gift" and often would not climax because I was ignorant of and uncomfortable with my response and the reaction I would get. I did have one guy ask me "what the hell was that?" and then referred to me as being a "squirter", which I found that highly offensive. After a lot of research of my experiences I understand just how fortunate I am. The guy that I am with now finds it a huge turn on.

Unfortunately, the waste I am talking about is other one....... :{

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Registered: 01-09-2008
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 3:46am
I totally know where you are coming from!! I had the same thing happen to me but luckily my boyfriend that is was awesome and it was a great turn on for him!! And as everyone else has said we should feel lucky to be able to do this! :0)
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Registered: 03-24-2003
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 8:38am

Ah.

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Registered: 08-16-2005
Wed, 01-23-2008 - 11:04am
Please don't worry about it. It's called female ejaculation. Most men find it to be a turn-on. What I have found out is to put a big towel under us when we're playing. Good luck!

 



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Registered: 03-24-2003
Wed, 01-23-2008 - 9:17pm

w00t!

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