embarrassing......
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| Tue, 01-08-2008 - 7:59pm |
I am not sure this is even the correct place to ask this question.
I am in a new relationship. The sex is very, very good but I have had a embarrassing situation happen to me a few times.
When I am on top, the pressure of the orgasm is very intense and causes me to pass out a small amount of waste material (OMG! can you say mortified!). The first time it happened (the first time we had sex, no less) I just wanted to crawl under the nearest rock. I tried to clear it up and hide it but he caught on. He tried to joke around about it to lighten the mood but he quickly picked up that I was embarrassed about it and dropped the subject. The second time, I was able to take care of it without him knowing. I am pretty sure that it recently happened again only he took care of it for me. I think he thought I did not know it happened and was saving me the embarrassment.
I always hit the bathroom before we go to bed, just that very reason - to try to prevent any accidents from happening.
Does anyone else have this problem, and if they do - what do you do?
Thanks.

Actually, if you've already gone to the bathroom before having sex, it COULD be a female ejaculation -- and instead of being embarassed, you are one lucky female because very few are able to do that!
Female ejaculate is a fluid that is expelled from the body through the urethra during sexual activities. When released in small quantities it may be a mucous like fluid having a clear, milky, or yellowish coloration. As the volume of the expelled fluid increases it becomes like clear water. In small quantities it may have a distinct scent that is musky or pungent but when the fluid increases in volume and becomes clear there is no longer a detectable scent.
I am one of the lucky that does ejaculate. It took me a very, very long long time to become comfortable with my "gift" and often would not climax because I was ignorant of and uncomfortable with my response and the reaction I would get. I did have one guy ask me "what the hell was that?" and then referred to me as being a "squirter", which I found that highly offensive. After a lot of research of my experiences I understand just how fortunate I am. The guy that I am with now finds it a huge turn on.
Unfortunately, the waste I am talking about is other one....... :{
Ah.
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