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| Sun, 01-27-2008 - 9:33pm |
Hey everyone,
I am in a kind of interesting situation....While i was on vacation in europe last year i met this amazing italian guy who is just....amazing. anyway, we kept in touch and now that i'm back in the general vicinity he's asked that i come visit him. The thing is that I know that once i'm around him he'll want to have sex. I mean, when we met the first time we definitely had a great time together, sexually but i was nervous after that experience because it is unlike me to have sex with someone i don't really know well. this time it's different because for the past month we've been talking and he seems realy interested in pursuing something more with me other than a physical thing, so he's been really honest about his past. so far i know he has had more partners than he can count and he was in brazil (which is known for STDs especially HIV) recently and had a couple of partners there as well. I am not confident that he was totally safe with all these people although he said he was. I just know that he was willing at one point to have sex with me without a condom. Anyway, I am not sure if i should see him again and don't know if i'm being really paranoid about things (i have anxiety in my history) or if i shoud just go visit him, have fun, and just be sure to be protected.
Please help, I'm just really confused...

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