vajayjay plastic surgery

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Registered: 01-12-2008
vajayjay plastic surgery
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Tue, 01-29-2008 - 2:43am

Hi all, I'm new here and really searched long and hard to find a place to share my issue with. If this is TMI, please say so- although I have read some of the post's and think this is the right place for some good advice.


I am a 41 yr old mother of 4, my youngest child is 13. Before I had my children I had a BEAUTIFUL body- nough said right?. Well, I am remarried and things have not been steamy for a while. I'm worried that maybe after 4 kids my vagina is not as tight as it once was and I am the keigle queen.


About 2 years ago i noticed my one side of my labia minora was larger and it has begun to sag, I have thought about having vaginal rejuvination with a labia reduction and wondered if anyone here might have either had this done and if so the pro's and con's. OR- suggestions on a non surgical procedure- less evasive.


I miss my sex life, my husband has become distant and I really think that this is a large part of the problem, even if he denies it. I'm self consious and really am steering in the direction of having - lets say an overhaul.


 

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Tue, 01-29-2008 - 8:40am

Do NOT do it!!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2006
Tue, 01-29-2008 - 9:27pm

I also think that a counselor would be a good first step. What happens is it's not the physical condition of your vagina and labia that's putting him off? Then you'll have had surgery for nothing.

There's also probably no harm in looking for a plastic surgeon. A good and reputable one won't push you into it and will clearly explain any possible side effects as well as the odds of these side effects occurring. Good luck!

Mel