How often do you have sex (or want it)?

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Registered: 03-24-2003
How often do you have sex (or want it)?
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Sat, 02-16-2008 - 7:38pm

How often do you have sex (or want it)?



  • Few times a day
  • Daily
  • Few times a week
  • Once a week
  • Few times a month
  • Few times a year
  • Sex? What's that?
  • Other (please explain)


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Registered: 02-20-2008
Mon, 05-12-2008 - 11:42pm

last relationship ended after two years and the sex stopped about 6 months before i moved on...

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 1:42am
I think the older we get, the better the sex is.

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Registered: 05-15-2008
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 6:17pm
Hi.
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Registered: 03-24-2003
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 6:21pm
Has he had a check-up lately to rule out any underlying health problems?

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Registered: 05-15-2008
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 2:05pm
I don't think
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Registered: 03-24-2003
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 2:16pm
As my 85yo dad told everyone at Christmas Eve dinner, "I don't need Viagra to keep your grandmother happy."

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Registered: 03-24-2008
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 6:47pm

Sex...what's that?


Okay folks, it's been awhile...like nearly 2 years, nine months.

It's okay to jump...you have wings! 

To move forward...you have to stop looking back.

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 11:01am

I was celibate for six years after leaving an abusive marriage, and men were about as appealing as liver and onions (or lima beans) -- but then something clicked in my head that I while I was having GREAT sex, I wanted great sex with someone other than myself and my trusty BOB.


You'll get there eventually.

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Registered: 05-22-2008
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 3:25am
hi,this is manutiger read about u nice to know adt ur libido can we share our lifes and increase each others libido onlu if u say so
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Registered: 08-13-2006
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 6:11am

Sex...well, once upon a time...

Husband of nearly 5 years and I have definitely grown apart in the bedroom. He's disabled, so I've only had one position to choose from all that time (female superior). He has severe Acid Reflux which is very partial to kicking up in the middle of intimacy (nice to realize that someone could vomit on you at any time during sex, eh?) I have to stop, get him medication for it,...and that usually ends the experience for me (which annoys him !?!). Lately, despite treatment, he's been donating blood every time he ejaculates--a decided mood-killer. My crumbling joints have made our only sexual position option uncomfortable and difficult to maintain for me and it puts me off just thinking about it.

At first my hubby's "innocence", clumsiness, and cluelessness in the bedroom was endearing when we were dating. 6 years later, far from getting better, he's given up and left all the overtures to me...and sometimes I still have to explain what I am trying to do (!?!?!)

I really miss the man/woman dynamic I took for granted in previous relationships, because being 100% in charge 24/7 feels more like parenting and is not sexy at all.

*Hubby and I started out as good friends, which hasn't changed much, but it's not the sort of friendship that seems conducive to physical intimacy.