How often do you have sex (or want it)?
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How often do you have sex (or want it)?
| Sat, 02-16-2008 - 7:38pm |
How often do you have sex (or want it)?
- Few times a day
- Daily
- Few times a week
- Once a week
- Few times a month
- Few times a year
- Sex? What's that?
- Other (please explain)
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last relationship ended after two years and the sex stopped about 6 months before i moved on...
Sex...what's that?
Okay folks, it's been awhile...like nearly 2 years, nine months.
It's okay to jump...you have wings!
To move forward...you have to stop looking back.
I was celibate for six years after leaving an abusive marriage, and men were about as appealing as liver and onions (or lima beans) -- but then something clicked in my head that I while I was having GREAT sex, I wanted great sex with someone other than myself and my trusty BOB.
You'll get there eventually.
Sex...well, once upon a time...
Husband of nearly 5 years and I have definitely grown apart in the bedroom. He's disabled, so I've only had one position to choose from all that time (female superior). He has severe Acid Reflux which is very partial to kicking up in the middle of intimacy (nice to realize that someone could vomit on you at any time during sex, eh?) I have to stop, get him medication for it,...and that usually ends the experience for me (which annoys him !?!). Lately, despite treatment, he's been donating blood every time he ejaculates--a decided mood-killer. My crumbling joints have made our only sexual position option uncomfortable and difficult to maintain for me and it puts me off just thinking about it.
At first my hubby's "innocence", clumsiness, and cluelessness in the bedroom was endearing when we were dating. 6 years later, far from getting better, he's given up and left all the overtures to me...and sometimes I still have to explain what I am trying to do (!?!?!)
I really miss the man/woman dynamic I took for granted in previous relationships, because being 100% in charge 24/7 feels more like parenting and is not sexy at all.
*Hubby and I started out as good friends, which hasn't changed much, but it's not the sort of friendship that seems conducive to physical intimacy.
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