How often do you have sex (or want it)?

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Registered: 03-24-2003
How often do you have sex (or want it)?
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Sat, 02-16-2008 - 7:38pm

How often do you have sex (or want it)?



  • Few times a day
  • Daily
  • Few times a week
  • Once a week
  • Few times a month
  • Few times a year
  • Sex? What's that?
  • Other (please explain)


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Registered: 03-24-2003
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 11:30am

Good grief!

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 6:28pm

Appreciate the insight, cl-traceytrebilcox :D

Covert Bailey once defined stress as "Your boyfriend and your husband have just met...and they LIKE each other!"

No..heh, an open relationship would kill me in more ways than one. I don't have it in me to babysit TWO men. That, and I am under no delusions that an outside affair wouldn't complicate life beyond human tolerance. Women always get the bum deal in the end...in my dating years I learned that lesson the hard way. Nothing is free.

We BOTH have considerable medical problems, so neither of us are choice cuts on the dating scene. I guess it's one of those "we're together because nobody else would want us" deals.

We're still fond of each other, and lord knows we know secrets about one another that would never be tolerated by someone else! Eh, the honeymoon is over, yes, and the sex is lousy...does that warrant the electric chair for the entire relationship...? Have to choose my battles carefully, there, because there's a lot more at stake (not least the fact that there is no one to take my place in my husband's care if I jump ship, because his own family doesn't want to get "stuck" with him). I don't think I'd live with myself for long knowing that my husband (who tells me he loves me every day) was shriveling alone in a rest home somewhere just because I wasn't getting thrills in the boudoir.

Between a rock and a hard place, there.

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Sun, 05-25-2008 - 9:01pm
I'm so sorry to hear that it's tough.

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Registered: 05-28-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:17pm
My HD is 27 and I am 22 and we would do it in the car on the way to dinner if it were legal (well we have =) ) So I would say we have sex as much as possible. We've been married almost 2 yrs. So I guess we are still in the honeymoon stage or whatever. But even if we fight, angry sex can be great......even worth fighting for =)! I don't think there is a normal or healthy amount of sex. I think that as long as you are having its healthy.
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Registered: 05-29-2008
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 5:53pm

We're in our early 30's and the sex couldn't be better but it's not that frequent.

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