PLEASE help my lack of sexual desire
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| Tue, 03-04-2008 - 1:56am |
Please, please help me. I am stuck in a miserable job that causes me huge stress on a lot of different fronts, from feeling inadequate in my job and undeserving of anything more, to long, exhausting hours.
I have an amazing, wonderful boyfriend whom I adore. I used to burn with sexual desire, so much so that I was never satisfied and would often wake in the night to masterbate or have sex. I went on the Nuvaring because condoms were very uncomfortable for me. Now, however, I have almost no interest in sex and rarely initiate it, have a hard time getting wet enough to keep going without help from artificial lubrication, and struggle to reach orgasm, if i get there at all.
None of this was a problem before I got this job or went on the ring, both of which events occurred around the same time, so I don't know which is the cause for my troubles. I am looking for a new position and plan on talking about changing BC this weekend with my gynecologist, but I wonder if anyone out there can offer me some help from someone who has battled this problem and won, and/or some advice on which new BC might help relieve these problems.
This combination of problems is making me miserable! I couldn't sleep tonight and wound up crying, so I decided to reach out to you. Please help me!

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Wow I'm sorry to hear about your frustration! I too, have been where your at. Something was just missing. We tried (and I hope this isn't too personal) visiting an adult store and finding something new or fun that we both felt comfortable with. Just something to look forward too, becuase it was alittle different. Maybe try moving into sex slow with massages and him just lighting "tickling" you. I mean, it could be something as easy as just spicing it up a little bit. Or it may be something else.I'm not sure if this helps, but I hope that you find what it is that you need! :o)
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