scared of losing virginity
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scared of losing virginity
| Thu, 06-05-2008 - 9:22pm |
I'm a virgin. I'm really scared as to if it hurts a lot when that membrane is broken. And how long will the pain last? Won't it be a big wound? Does it bleed a lot? Can anyone one tell me? How can anyone not hate the person who's doing that? Can an anaesthetic or an analgesic gel help?

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These fears are telling you that you're not ready to have sex.
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Losing your virginity can be a scary thought sometimes. There's a video by Tracey Cox all about that "First Time" that might help ease some of your fears. Her video is def. helpful and should tell you what to expect your first time.
"Your First Time with Tracey Cox": http://video.ivillage.com/player/?id=248037
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I've just had a blow with my parents for asking me if I don't get married! Easy for them to get on my back!!
I wish I could get it surgically removed as she suggests but I wonder if it's available everywhere and if the medical personnel find it normal for someone to ask for it. Specially since, though I'm dead scared about the issue, there's no one around to make me lose it!
It was a helpful video, and I feel relieved that others also find these to be problems- so I'm not a nut as most people in my community would think if I voice it here. It's nice to have friends who I can talk to freely.
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