Boyfriend wanting Oral sex

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2010
Boyfriend wanting Oral sex
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Thu, 03-25-2010 - 8:00pm
I need help. My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob, and I'm disgusted by it. I feel that if he wears a condom, I'd do it; but I don't know how to say that to him. Any advice?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2006
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 6:02am
Hi tearsa, and welcome to the board.

Are you able to talk about this with your boyfriend, or is he simply demanding you give him a blow job? Does he know how you feel about it, that it disgusts you? Have you ever given one?

I strongly suggest that you sit down with him and talk about it. If you are disgusted by it, then giving in and doing it when you don't want to isn't the solution. It isn't right or fair to either of you. If you feel you could try, as long as he uses a condom, tell him that.

I also suggest you go to the Oral Sex board, and either ask for help there with techniques, if you do go through with it, or ask for advice on how to deal with refusing it. Here's the link to that board/

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/main.asp?webtag=iv-rloralsex&nav=start





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