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Overwhelmed
| Sun, 02-25-2007 - 10:34pm |
I get overwhelmed when I come here, but I need some support, and I didn't really know where else to turn.
Tomorrow, it will be one year since the most important person in my world, my grandma, died of breast cancer.
I can't write any more right now or I'll break into a thousand pieces.


((((aimsterg))) I am so very
(((((Amy))))), I think I can understand the feeling of being overwhelmed here.
My Dh's grandma just passed...it has started the whole missing my own thing. I understand your pain...believe me.
How are you today.
Beth
((((((aimsterg)))))
I am so sorry for the loss of your dear grandmother. It is so very difficult to loose a loved one, and the anniversaries are so heart breaking aswell. I can defintiely relate to how you are feeling, as I lost my mother 2 years ago. She was a women and mother who inspired me, encouraged me to go down the right path, guided me, taught me, and my wonderful life today, is all because of her. I miss her terribly.
On Jan 22/07 it was her 2nd year anniversary. I don't know if this will help you, but I would like to tell you what I did, which was comforting and was very theraputic. I didn't know how I was going to get through that day, the day that would bring back all the memories of me loosing that precious women. I then decided the evening before, to sit down and write her a letter. I sat with a nice hot cup of tea, I put on some very soft music, and then began to write. I couldn't believe that once I began writting, I went on and on telling her all the things, good and bad that has come along during the two years of her passing.It felt so good, for me to have done that. Who gave me that idea????? My mom herself. When my dad passed away, my mother wrote many many letters to him, which I knew about as she would read some of them to me, and we had found a whole bunch of letters to him when she had passed on. Remembering her doing that, gave me the idea to do the same, and I must tell you, that alot of the pain, and the hurt of not having her here with me, and the tons of weight that laid on my chest, seemed to have lifted after writting her and telling her what I wanted to.
You can also keep a journal aswell. I do feel for you, and my thoughts are with you aswell.
((((((hugs)))))
Miriam