Lost my husband...love of my life.
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Lost my husband...love of my life.
| Thu, 03-15-2007 - 12:47pm |
I recently lost my husband..he was only 37 years old. We have 3 children, 2 daughters and a son..is the hardest most difficult time of my life. My children right now are what's holding me together but I should be the one holding them and I can't seem to get my head on straight....Can't talk any more..

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How do you ever get over the reaccuring thought that may be you could have done something different? I thought at the time I was doing everything right, but for a year now all I think about is everything else I wish I could have done.
I wish I could just be satisfied with the decisions I made. Does it ever go away? Although I know that no matter what desicions I made back than I would always qustion myself, can anyone tell me if this is ever going to go away? mv55
Honey, my prayers go out to you at this terrible and frightening time.
I wondered for about a year if
My dh died suddenly from a brain aneurysm 12/24/2005 and felt for a long time that maybe I should have pushed him more to see a doctor more often, looked for more symptoms ect., and can see the signs now.
CO-CL to Stress and Women, Bereavement and Healing,
Hugs and love for you and your family.
Hi, (((((Sammydutchak)))))!
Oh, my heart goes out to you. Of course you did all you could do but we always ask ourselves if we did. It's just that we look for any answers to our questions of "why?" when our loved one is ripped from our life with no forwarning. Unfortunately part of that is questioning ourselves & what we did.
My husband died suddenly a few months ago but my child is grown. I can't imagine having small children to take care of while going through all this. I have dogs & it is all I can do to keep it together. Take whatever help you can get, make your life as easy as you can - I know nothing seems easy now - at least so you'll experience the least amount of stress as you can.
Be good to yourself. And get sleep when you can. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers go our to you & your family.
Karen
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