Mother Dying - Can't Be With Her
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Mother Dying - Can't Be With Her
| Thu, 03-29-2007 - 9:30pm |
My Grandmother/Mom who raised me since I was a infant is dying, can go at any moment and I can't go spend her last moments with her. Her actual kids who most have not seen her for 6 years, think I have stolen her money and don't want me there. I have never have had access to her money nor did I want it, my uncle and aunt are the only ones that did but since my Dad/Grandpa took his life 7 years ago. I am the only one that has took care of her taken her doctor, hospital etc....I am the only one who visited her on Holidays for her birthday, took her out to lunch. Now they who has had nothing to do with her show up at her bedside and accuse me of stealing her money and that I don't belong there. I am devasted but I don't want her last moments to be arguments either. What do I do?

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I am so sorry your family is being like this.
Your mom/grandma knows you love her and what you have done for her. You were there when she needed you most, and loved her all the way. Thank is was counts
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Please take comfort in the times you have had with her. My sister recently passed. I could not be there.
(((((Debra))))), I'm so glad you experienced Pat's presence.
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Debra, when I looked back at my message to you, I realized I could have explained it better.
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Yeah it is there THANK YOU so much.
I tried that before but I must have done it in a different order or something.
Debra
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