Mother Dying - Can't Be With Her

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Mother Dying - Can't Be With Her
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Thu, 03-29-2007 - 9:30pm
My Grandmother/Mom who raised me since I was a infant is dying, can go at any moment and I can't go spend her last moments with her. Her actual kids who most have not seen her for 6 years, think I have stolen her money and don't want me there. I have never have had access to her money nor did I want it, my uncle and aunt are the only ones that did but since my Dad/Grandpa took his life 7 years ago. I am the only one that has took care of her taken her doctor, hospital etc....I am the only one who visited her on Holidays for her birthday, took her out to lunch. Now they who has had nothing to do with her show up at her bedside and accuse me of stealing her money and that I don't belong there. I am devasted but I don't want her last moments to be arguments either. What do I do?

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Registered: 09-11-2004
Fri, 03-30-2007 - 5:48am

I am so sorry your family is being like this.


Your mom/grandma knows you love her and what you have done for her. You were there when she needed you most, and loved her all the way. Thank is was counts

Beth
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Registered: 12-16-2006
Fri, 03-30-2007 - 11:12am
I am sorry that your family feel this way. But I feel that your Gandma/Mom knows what is going on and she knows that you love her. You have been the one to care for her all this time when she really needed it the most. The truth will come out in time, don't worry. She can feel your love even if you are not in the room. Love knows no boundries, not even walls. You are in my prayers, as well'as your Grandma/Mom. Stay strong.
(((((HUGS and many Prayers)))))))))
~Deborah~
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Registered: 01-26-2004
Fri, 03-30-2007 - 9:30pm
I believe your Grandmother/Mom is sure of your love for her, as you are of her love for you.
AcornLeaves
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Sun, 04-01-2007 - 12:18am

Please take comfort in the times you have had with her. My sister recently passed. I could not be there.

 

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Sun, 04-01-2007 - 2:28pm

(((((Debra))))), I'm so glad you experienced Pat's presence.

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Sun, 04-01-2007 - 5:27pm

The picture in the backround is the Palimetul Palace or the People Palace. I believe it is now were the Romanian Parliment meets. It was built by the former comunist leader Ciscecescu(spelled wrong...sorry) in the mid 1980's. It is the second largest

 

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Sun, 04-01-2007 - 5:32pm

 

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Mon, 04-02-2007 - 10:33am

Debra, when I looked back at my message to you, I realized I could have explained it better.


Under the pale tan box at the top of our board that has the board title, there is a darker tan strip with "welcome, fourforwalker", and then several headings beginning with "your profile".

AcornLeaves
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Registered: 11-24-2003
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 7:12pm

Yeah it is there THANK YOU so much.


I tried that before but I must have done it in a different order or something.


Debra

 

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Mon, 04-02-2007 - 8:28pm
Thanks to all of you that replied. I was able to go see her early in the mornings before she passed this past sunday morning. I am still very sad.

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