Thanks everyone!! Taking a break...

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Thanks everyone!! Taking a break...
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Fri, 06-01-2007 - 2:17pm

from all things drama....and I am going to take a break from the board as well. No real reason other than I have to really concentrate on me because I am so overwhelmed with my life as is and I need time away from my troubles and others as well.

My best friend and I spoke on Wednesday and he was a royal as*. He was hell bent on reaming me for all of my faults and not once did I get an apology. He kept bringing up the fact that I wasn't his girlfriend or wife and I finally had to ask why he keeps saying that because I have no issues with who I am in his life. He said that multiple friends of his upon meeting me had mentioned they thought I was in love and he did say he defended me because he knows that it has never been about that with me. BUT...so tired of the posse or committee mentality in regards to how he has everyone involved in me. He said so many different things about how I need him too badly (how can that happen when I live in another state) and ultimately at the end of the conversation I realized that our friendship wasn't big enough for him, me and his ego. We said our I love yous and hung up but I knew that I needed to take a step out for a while to truly be healthy with him as my friend. AND still no apology.

I have decide that next 6 months is about me. NO men...no best friends and all fun and games. I am going to re-do my home and I started working overtime to earn the money for all the extras that I want. Very excited about that.

I wish everyone well and I will be lurking around. See ya soon.

Kiki

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Registered: 09-13-2005
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 4:26pm

Kiki Sweetie pie,

We will all miss you here on the board, but I am sure that just as I do, the wonderful women here on this board will understand.

I am very proud of you, you take that break, it is well deserved, and you work on yourself, enjoy life, have fun redecorating your place, be happy and on behalf of all of us here on the board, we wish you all the very best. Try to keep intouch with us and let us know how you are coming along.

GOOD LUCK!!!!!

Love, Miriam

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Registered: 12-16-2006
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 6:22pm

Dear Kiki,

(((((((((( You go girl!!!!! )))))))))))
I believe you have deserved a much needed rest!!!!!! Don't worry about every one else, you just take care of yourself. Have fun decorating your home, make it full of fun and when you sit down and rest "Enjoy it". Go out and see other people for fun, who knows Mr. Right maybe waiting for you. Thank you for being there for me, in my time of need.
Please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing.
((((((((((((( we love you))))))))))))
~Deborah~

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Fri, 06-01-2007 - 9:43pm