Remembering

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Registered: 08-21-2010
Remembering
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Sat, 08-21-2010 - 5:18pm

I lost the love of my life about 6 weeks ago.  We were together almost 9 years, we loved each other so deeply. I think about him all day,everyday, I write him a note each morning. I know I'll be happy again someday but for now it seems so overwhelming.  I miss him so much, the pain is so unbearable at times.  I am reading 2 excellent books on grieving and they validate my sanity but I still feel like I'm going crazy once in a while.  I would just like to communicate with others who have endured and survived this kind of loss


Thank you...blessings to you all.


 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2009
Sun, 08-22-2010 - 2:24am

Hi,


I am so very sorry for your loss.



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Registered: 01-29-2008
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 1:12am
Welcome to the board, but so sorry why! I lost my husband 15 months ago, and remember that feeling all too well. I think its great you write those letters each day. Like Promise, I talk to my husband daily. We were married 2 years, together almost 4 and I miss him deeply. It is nice to connect with others that truly get this. Huge hugs to you!







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RIP James, my husband my hero




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Registered: 11-04-1999
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 5:21am

I am so very sorry on your loss.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 1:51pm

Josie:


Thank you for your kind words.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2009
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:11am

Hi Carol,


it is so wonderful you were both the one and only to each other. Unbearably sad too that you have bben separated physically by



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Registered: 08-30-2010
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 7:34am

Dear sadinwisconsin,


I am so sorry for the loss of your life partner.


The loss of a partner is the loss of a dream.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2009
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 6:19pm

Welcome to the board Maat.



iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2010
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 9:03pm

Thank you so much for your kind words.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2009
Tue, 08-31-2010 - 1:23pm
Hi,
yes we have all been in the sme place you are now so we completely understand what you are going through. All I can say is it gets easier, not better, just easier but it takes a whole heap of time.
~hug~
Promise






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Registered: 09-08-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 10:01pm
i lost my wife a year and a half ago,and still feel the same way you do. i dont know how long it takes till you feel normal again but i know someday i will get there. the only thing i can tell you is, be strong more people rely on you than you know, people will come out of the woodwork that you would never expect to shair in your greif and it will really help. remember the good times that helps. hope some of this helps it is yhe best i can do right now, talk to you later,maybe....................tad

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