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Need info on exam
| Fri, 08-29-2003 - 3:16pm |
I hope I get sympathetic responses instead of angry ones for waiting so long. I have a question. I am 25 and have never been to the gyno. I really want to, as I would like to srart a family with my boyfriend in the future and know that it is important to go. Growing up, my mom never once took me or told me I should go, it was left up to me. My mom was good with everything else, I think maybe she didn't want to think that I was growing up and needed to go or wanted to give me a reason to think it was ok to have sex. I have heard stories of what they do, but can anyone give me advice or a run down of what happens and how long it usually takes?

I just want you to know you aren't alone..
No one here would *ever* scold you for not going to the doctor earlier. I'm just happy that you've made the choice now! Better late than never!
My friend Judie posted a message to another lady detailing the exam process. She did an excellent job at it too! Read through that and if you have any questions, please ask!
Here's the link:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-bhgynconcern&msg=10304.2
Kristin
I'm glad that you've found help here. IVilliage is a neat place!
Kristin
But now, when you do have daughters, you'll remember that - and I bet will make it a point to educate and encourage them. :-)