Pain: Long Labia
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| Fri, 11-28-2003 - 1:16am |
I learn a painful lesson the hard way: I should have said "no" to the guy in the first place, if I was not physically ready.
I was born with long clitoris and labia. Since I was a little girl, I had to be very careful in riding onå bikes. Sometimes, it hurt so much.
I had a horrible vulva pain, 2 months ago.
It was a blind date. I was not aware that the guy was gonna invite me to horseback riding, until the last minute. It was the second day of my heavy period. Previously, I had to go through great pain to remove soaked tampons from my pretty dry vagina. I figured I had better stay with Maxi pads, so as to spare myself some aggravations.
I happened to wear cotton panty with very rich "ribbed" texture. He, a handsome guy actually, picked me up with an old 4x4. Running through the bumpy country road, I started feeling the thick pad rubbing against my labia. On the way to the horse ranch, I was thinking about asking him to drop by the pharmacy to allow me to buy tampons. Yet! It was only our first date, I did not muster the courage to say that to him.
Horseback riding made my vulva pain even worse. Eventually, he noticed my grimace and sent me home. I had to have my whole genitalia heavily medicated for three weeks.
Girls! Gotta say "no" for your own protection.
Helena

*hugs*
That sounds soo painful!!!!
I am lucky! I have a good Gyno---vulva pain is gone. My current BF is very thoughtful and gentle.
I brought him to visit the Cosmo section of iVillage.com. He loves video games. Now, he always says:" Just rock my joystick as hard as you can." I used to very conscious about my long labia---acted very passively in love-making. I was very much worried that what if BF laughed at my "drooping" labia during sex. Now, I have the freedom to straddle over his lap as much as I want to satiate our libido.
Have you ever considered surgery? Once for all?
You have to "lighten up"! Put your past behind. Life is short.
Helena
Nikki
You are NOT alone, I am 20yrs old and in the same spot....I have always had long labia and it is embarassing and made me feel like intimacy is not appealing. I have read a few articles about a proceedure you can get done to trim them, it is quick and done under a local anesthetic. You have to go to a gynocologist to mend this problem, something I am currently procrastinating on. I am going to do it though, because i don't want to be living like this 10 yrs from now!
Good luck!
I do admire your determination. Being decisive is the virtue.
When I was 17, I was dating my best friend's brother. It was my birthday, he wanted to be intimate. He wanted me to try on a red racy skimpy panty, a present. When he saw my labia, he was laughing out loud:" Gee! Look limy my dachshund's long ears."
I was shocked and ashamed. Eventually! My sister brought me to see her gyno who told me my labia were slightly longer than the average---yet, surgery would be unnecessary. I felt relieved!
Thank God! BF won't mind my labia, which is not an issue to our intimacy.
You gotta do what you gotta do for you future!
Sara